Friendship

The thing about friends is that when we make them its all sunshine and rainbows, we share everything with them, get really close and it seems as if nothing would separate them.

But then differences arise, problems occur and fights happen. And that’s the real test of friendship whether its just for the time being or long-lasting.

If we overcome these hurdle together then the friendship will remain forever.

If one compromises for the sake of another then it is for a certain time.

If none do then it was superficial to begin with.

Either way its best to know before-hand who your true friends are and having good, sincere friends is truly a blessing :)

The purest and most sincere friendship is that of childhood as it is filled with innocence. If this friendship continues on in the late life then nothings can be better than this.

Most girls are incapable of sincere friendship. This may seem a bit discriminatory but its an actual fact as girls naturally have feelings of jealousy as they are highly emotional. Also most girsl believe in superficial things and are incapable of seeing deeper meaning of things. This is not true for all girls but majority are this way. Also because girls get emotional too often their friendship suffers because of this

In the end a person comes into this world alone and leaves alone but its nice to know that your absence means something to someone..

 

 

 

quotes : part two

If you want to Shine like a Sun, Than you have to Burn like it.

Adolf Hitler

Nations are born in the hearts of poets, they prosper and die in the hands of politicians.

Muhammad Iqbal

The poets are only the interpreters of the Gods.

Socrates

Beauty is mysterious as well as terrible. God and devil are fighting there, and the battlefield is the heart of man.

Fyodor Dostoevsky

A single rose can be my garden… a single friend, my world.

Leo Buscaglia

My memory of you is better than you.

Lao Tzu

There is no market for your sorrows in this world, so never advertise them !
The inability to open up to hope is what blocks trust, and blocked trust is the reason for blighted dreams.

(unknown)

Decisions are the hardest move to make .. Especially when its a choice between where you should be and where you want to be ..

(unknown)

Family has nothing to do with blood. family is the people you love and the people who love you and count on you.

(unknown)

Whenever you’re in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.

(unknown)

Worrying is like a rocking chair, it gives you something to do, but it doesn’t get you anywhere.

(unknown)

I would prefer to be honest failure than to be a corrupt success.
(unknown)


Maana k bura hun magr itna b nai…

Kuch nazron se gira hun magr itna b nai…

Kon kehta hai hum waqif nai aadab-e-muhabbat se…

Thora be-wafa hun magr itna b nai…

Wo kam se kam mananey to aye Mohsin…

Main us se khafa hun magr itna b nai


Salman Taseer, Mumtaz Qadri and Veena Malik : in retrospect

Over the past few months, the whole of Pakistan has been in uproar over the assassination of Salman Taseer and the shenanigans of Veena Malik.

Now one may wonder how the two are interrelated and as to why am I discussing them in the same post. Well the reason being that in both the cases, one person is being glorified and the other is being downcasted.

Within a few days of Salman Taseer’s death and the news that a certain Mumtaz Qadri killed him due to his views on the blasphemy law, the entire Pakistan divided into two main groups. One started calling Salman Taseer a ‘shaheed’ and started praising him as an upholder of ‘equality’ and ‘freedom of speech’ or as someone who stood up against Zia’s black laws. The other started praising Mumtaz Qadri as a hero who was righteous in killing a ‘Non-believer’ and that Slaman Taseer was a kafir and deserved what he got. So there was a ‘Team Salman’ and a ‘Team Qadri’  and the later one consisted mostly of religious bigots. But sadly most of our supposedly ‘educated’ youngsters were also part of this divide. During this whole debate i didn’t come across a single individual who spoke and ounce of logic. Each was glorifying and defiantly proving one’s ‘hero’ right and defaming the other. What we failed to realize was that in debates like this no one is absolutely right or wrong. Despite his way of living, the death of Salman Taseer was completely wrong and Mumtaz Qadri should be punished for this because it shows our tolerance level as a society that we cannot even bear the opinion of others to this extent that we start killing those who don’t agree with us.  But on the other hand to praise and honor Salman Taseer is again wrong because frankly speaking he never had any idea what he was talking about. If we take a look at his past statements that he gave, majority of them were just ridiculous and made no sense at all. So in a nutshell his death is condemnable but not to be commended. As far as the blasphemy law or the righteous killing of Non-Muslims is concerned, we are no one to judge any persons faith. Islam does not advocates the killing of any human being. If such was the case then the whole of Makkah would have been wiped out after its conquest by  Hazrat Muhammad (S.A.W.W). But no such thing occurred because Islam teaches to spread the faith not through sword but through actions. But none of the maulvis teach this because this then undermines their power over the people as a person driven by passion than mind is easily controlled.

Now in the case of Veena Malik there is a lot of controversy and the recent interview of her with Kamran Shahid has added more fuel to fire. But once again some people are siding with her and calling her accusators as hypocrites and the rest are condemning her and are making allegations against her that she defamed the country through her shameful acts. Again there is a certain grey area that no one sees because in our society we love pointing fingers at others rather than accepting our mistakes as well. Keeping the interview in mind both Veena Malik and the supposed ‘mufti’ who was called are correct. What Veena did in India was absolutely wrong. I am familiar with the programme and the rules and what she did there was her choice and she cannot avert that blame, but she is also right that all this isn’t new to us. These things occur around us all the time and we know it all but like a pigeon we are afraid of accepting this so we shut our eyes and act as if there is no cat. But one day the reality is going to hit us and by then there wouldn’t be anything that we can do to undo it. So its best that we learn from our mistake now until its too late to !

Happiness

A lot of times people ask themselves or others, ‘what is the meaning of life?’ and many a times the answer is, ‘attaining happiness.’ But I tend to disagree. Happiness is not a prize to be won, it is present, scattered all around us but requires a tiny effort on our part to notice it.

We as human beings are extremely ignorant of the small pieces of joy that is spread all around us in great amounts. The problem is that we only tend to look at our sorrows and problems and complain that we dont have this or that.

If we stop once in a while and notice the joy that is around us, half the diseases in the world would be cures and life would be a perfect bliss, or atleast we would have the sourage and faith to face our problems and sorrows with a smile.

Happiness can be found anywhere, in the smile of a baby, in the cooking of your mum, in the long stories your dad tells you, in the care a friend shows that he/she will always be there for you. So stop now, look around and feel the joy and be thankful for it because it might not be there tomorrow !

nuthin special

If I die, I forgive you, if I recover, we shall see ……

Falling in darkness
falling in depths
falling in eyes of many people met.
everybody knows you
for some reason they don’t understand you
3 or 4 kind words from their mouth
and conversation is over now buzz out.

A lonely soul…An ocean soul…

We live to die…………….

All the darkness of the world cannot put out the light of one small candle.

The day that I die will be the day that I shut my mouth.

We are all pretty bizarre. Some of us are just better at hiding it.

I am ready to meet my maker. Whenether my maker is prepared to meet me is another matter

tears are the words that heart can’t say

sick of crying
and im tired of trying
yes im smiling
but inside im dying

you ask what sadness is??
sadness is the black flower of life
sadness is the reson of happiness
sadness when you wait for someone you know that he will never come
sadness when you screm and the only answer is your echo….

Sad but true..
“You can always forgive the people who hurt you,
but you can never forget what they did..”

My Life

My life,as a silent spectator.
Watching far,from the open arena.

Scared to play.
Scared to win.
Scared to lose.

To what point and purpose?
I ask myself,
Are these people fighting.

To what point and purpose?
I ask myself,
Am I watching.

For how long have I stood?
Silent and Still.

Will I stay like this forever?
Will they keep fighting forever?
Will this conflict never end?
Will we ever live happily together?

Who can answer these questions?

Who can?
Who will?

I ask myself,

Who will?

quotes : part one

Loving is misery for women always. I shall never forgive God for making me a woman and dearly am I beginning to pay for the honour of owning a pretty face.

Thomas Hardy, Far From the Madding Crowd.


Do not do an immoral thing for moral reasons.

Thomas Hardy, Jude the Obscure.

 

Why should a man’s mind have been thrown into such close, sad, sensational, inexplicable relations with such a precarious object as his body?

Thomas Hardy

 

The sudden disappointment of a hope leaves a scar which the ultimate fulfillment of that hope never entirely removes.

Thomas Hardy

 

Persons with weight of character carry, like planets, their atmospheres along with them in their orbits.

Thomas Hardy

 

Hope is that thing with feathers that perches in the soul and sings the tune without the words and never stops… at all.

Emily Dickinson

 

If most of us are ashamed of shabby clothes and shoddy furniture, let us be more ashamed of shabby ideas and shoddy philosophies…. It would be a sad situation if the wrapper were better than the meat wrapped inside it.

Albert Einstein

 

Dress is at all times a frivolous distinction, and excessive solicitude about it often destroys its own aim.

Jane Austen

 

Even the richest soil, if left uncultivated will produce the rankest weeds.

Leonardo da Vinci

 

Fashion is a form of ugliness so intolerable that we have to alter it every six months.

Oscar Wilde

 

Those who are faithful know only the trivial side of love; it is the faithless who know love’s tragedies.

Oscar Wilde

 

Nowadays people know the price of everything and the value of nothing.

Oscar Wilde

 

The hottest place in the hell lies for those who in times of moral crisis maintain their neutrality.

Dante

 

I could’ve burned all the jews, but I left some so that you could see why I wanted them to burn.

Hitler

 

Anwer Maqsood quote: Hamaray mazaq sar par se guzar jaye tau log toofaan khara kar dete hain, a toofan sar peh s guzar jaye tau mzaq kartay rehtay hain.

 

A revolution without dancing is a revolution not worth having.

(V for Vendetta)

 

“The chief beauty about time

is that you cannot waste it in advance.

The next year, the next day, the next hour

are lying ready for you,

as perfect, as unspoiled,

as if you had never wasted or misapplied

a single moment in all your life.

You can turn over a new leaf every hour

if you choose.”

Arnold Bennett

 

Marriage is a lottery in which men stake their liberty and women their happiness.

Madame de Rieux

 

One does evil enough when one does nothing good.

German Proverb

 

The reputation of a thousand years may be determined by the conduct of one hour.

Japanese Proverb

 

Through ideals that never last, Too opportunities all but past.. Life goes on, an endless abyss, and one keeps up his old wish… So don’t plan for someone’s destruction, plan for seeking your own salvation.

(unknown)

 

The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people so full of doubts.

(unknown)

Movie reviews

I’m a movie freak. Every year in my post-semester holidays i just take out lists of movies and waste my eyes upon them. So i thought about writing reviews about them. here are a few i watched recently, now some movies may be a year old but still i don’t get much time during my semester to watch them.

Letters to Juliet

To describe this movie in one word would be – drag. I saw its trailer and it seemed like a good watch but it was a complete drag. Though the trailer completely spills the marble on the story and its very predictable story as well but even then one just sits and waits to watch something good happen or some sort of substance to unfold and in that waiting the movie ends. so its not a good watch, not even for die-hard romantics cuz there is not an ounce of romanticism in it so in short- a complete waste of time !

Fantastic Mr. Fox

Overall i would say fantastic Mr. Fox was a good watch. Though in the beginning you have to wait for a story to unfold but with a little time your patience is rewarded in a considerable way. Though i haven’t read the novel but in the film the character of Mrs. Fox lacked substance but in the end she also redeems her character a little. The animation was really good; especially the heists were shot extremely well. And George Clooney was super in his voice-acting of fantastic Mr. Fox. Overall it was a nice film to watch.

500 days of summer

This movie is officially one of the most awesome films i have ever watched. It was an indie film so maybe a lot of people missed watching i but it is a super awesome film from every point of view. The characters were amazing. It might not be an overstatement to say that it was somewhat a perfect film though some people might get confused cuz of its nonlinear narrative structure, but it is a definite recommendation, everyone should definitely watch it!

Ethnocentrism

In the past months, a lot has been going downhill in our country. There is despair and disappointment everywhere and with each passing day the condition seems to be getting worse. But despite all of that we still haven’t been able to recognize our problems, still we are playing the blame game, still we are closing our eyes in vain hope that when we open them the problems would all be gone and it is just a bad dream. The reality is far from this. But whosoever points out these facts is termed as a ‘non-pakistani’ or unpatriotic. Just like with the Jews’ reaction to the Holocaust, if questions are raised on the partition there are outcries and severe criticism that follows.

Whatever happened in the partition of 1947, the violence that ensued on both sides, cannot be justified in any manner whatsoever. It was wrong on all accounts, whether the Muslims were targeted or the Hindus and Sikhs as a reaction. But we as Pakistanis are made to believe that it was 100% Hindus’ fault, not even the Sikhs who were actually involved in the killings and massacres. We as Pakistanis and most importantly as Muslims are taught to believe that we are a superior nation because we carved out a nation by our own blood and toil on the ideology of ‘la illaha illa allah’. So this makes us superior as compared to any other nation especially to India and the Hindus. And anyone not believing in this notion is termed as being unpatriotic. This is what is called ethnocentrism, a belief that our country or nation is more superior to others. It is good to be patriotic but blind patriotism follows with a lack of seeing the problems and hence solving them because we are not a perfect nation but we can strive to reach greatness.

I get on this debate a lot with my friends especially around 14th August or 23rd March because i am not a ‘proud pakistani’ and i don’t blindly follow the beliefs mentioned above. And i myself say it out loud, that yes i am not a proud Pakistani!

I am not proud of the lynching incident that happened in Sialkot and the numerous unnamed incidents that happen every single day in our society but go unheard of. Yes I am not proud of a parasitic government that is sucking every penny and the blood of the common person while sitting on the corpse of a former leader. Yes I am not proud of a history of corrupt politicians and army regimes that just messed up our entire country and brought no greater good to us. Yes I am not proud of the clerics and religious bigots who use religion for their own vested interests. Yes I am not proud of the dogmatic thinking of our people whether they are illiterate or educated. Yes I am not proud of a state of failures and mistakes and nor am i proud of the people because we can blame as much as we want on the government but as people we also don’t work honestly whenever we can.

So yes I am not proud of this supposedly great nation, because it is not a great nation yet but has immense capability to become one. Its youth are highly educated and informed and aware. The media is free which gives the common people information in its original form, whether it is good or bad as it happens. But as long as we sit comfortably in our houses and put on our tinted glasses and harp that we are perfect in every sense and nothing is wrong despite the fact that the world around us is drowning, literally we cannot channelize our potential to actually become one of the greatest nations of the world, as our Quaid said so.

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